According John Miller of QBQ, Inc. there are 15 reasons why we ask questions and a number of reason why we do not ask questions
15 reasons to ask questions!
1. To
acquire knowledge
2. To
eliminate confusion
3. To
cause someone else to feel special/important
4. To
guide a conversation in the direction we want it to go
5. To
demonstrate humility to another
6. To
enable a person to discover answers for themselves
7. To
gain empathy through better understanding another’s view
8. To
influence/alter someone else’s opinion/view
9. To
begin a relationship
10. To
strengthen a relationship
11. To
humbly show we have knowledge on a specific topic
12. To
stimulate creativity and idea generation
13. To
gain a person’s attention
14. To
solve a problem
15. To
reach agreement or to "agree to disagree" with clarity
So,
there they are … 15 reasons to ask questions.
It’s good to
explore the reasons why we DO NOT ask questions. Here are six:
1. To
find a culprit
2. To
embarrass and shame
3. To
appear superior
4. To
create fear
5. To
manipulate